Break the logjam when you have to get a task done and everything seems impossible!
Category: You can be better!
I’m sick of being compared to his ex-wives!
Question: My husband was in several very negative relationships before we got married. I accepted that, but now I’m just…
You do NOT control kids… but you can still get them to behave!
So this is third in a series on discipline for your children. These build on each other. It starts with…
Effective Discipline, Part II
So in last week’s blog post I gave you ways to control yourself so you can control the interactions with…
You do NOT have to live in chaos. Here’s your blueprint for regaining your control and making your child listen!
The kids are screaming at you. The house is a mess and nobody listens when you ask for help. Siblings…
When you think your child is a criminal, or maybe just bad.
Parents say this to me in whispers and then draw back into themselves waiting to be judged. They just KNOW…
Why don’t people appreciate it when I do better? I should just go back to being bad!
Our responses to people and situations can become so automatic that really, we have a habit and we do the…
When you want better, do something Scary
So I’m therapist, we’re usually the worst at taking our own advice, and I hear my clients talking about the…
Help, I need to Motivate myself!
Because, cmon, motivation and discipline are words that other people use to tell me why I’m not perfect. Only I…
How To Forgive Yourself
I was supposed to have another blog out last Wednesday about the difference between guilt and responsibility. It would help…