Question: My husband was in several very negative relationships before we got married. I accepted that, but now I’m just…
Category: Spouse
Dealing with the Crazy ex-Spouse
For those who will be dealing with ex’s and Oh Craps! this holiday season, a little help. Happy Thanksgiving! Question:…
Spring Cleaning out your life.
Spring is coming (here in the north we’re expecting it in less than 4 months) and it’s time to clean…
Responsibility will set you free.
Responsibility is a big word with life long effects. If your child can learn this one word and all…
How to Grieve When You’re Still Angry
Or hurt, disgusted, confused, maybe even scared. People die. The relationships they created go on past death to strengthen or…
Controlling People, really care about their own feelings.
But you don’t have to. You’ve probably been convinced that you should. You spend lots of time and energy apologizing…
People are trying to Control you
And they have so many ways to do this. You might think that controllers only yell and directly order you…
Identify and Deal with Passive Aggressive Behavior
Last week I answered a question from a woman talking about divorce. You may have noticed that I didn’t deal…
When and how to give an ultimatum
Question: My husband will rage at me, refuse to talk for hours or even days, and then act like…
Avoiding Fights
I get asked quite often how to avoid getting sucked into fights. People are usually frustrated and worn out when…